Umumnya semua perbuatan yang halal, apabila dilakukan dengan niat baik, selalu membuat Allah senang. Pasti akan mendapat ridhoNya.
Tapi ada satu perbuatan halal yang tak pernah disukai Allah. Bercerai.
Cerai itu acapkali dijadikan jalan keluar yang paling mudah. Katanya untuk "menentramkan" dua hati manusia yang sudah tak lagi saling mengerti. Sepertinya itu terkadang dianggap jalan terbaik untuk memecahan masalah.
Tapi pada akhirnya, anak-anak dan keluarga lah yang jadi korbannya.
Tidak pernah ada pemenang dalam perceraian.Semua menjadi zero sum game.
Ahirnya yang tertingal adalah hati putra dan putri yang patah terluka, serta kegagalan untuk memperjuangkan cinta.
Taken from ABBA album "Super Trouper" July 1980, The Winner Takes It All:
I don’t wanna talk
About the things we’ve gone through
Though it’s hurting me
Now it’s history
I’ve played all my cards
And that’s what you’ve done too
Nothing more to say
No more ace to play
The winner takes it all
The loser standing small
Beside the victory
That’s her destiny
I was in your arms
Thinking I belonged there
I figured it made sense
Building me a fence
Building me a home
Thinking I’d be strong there
But I was a fool
Playing by the rules
The gods may throw a dice
Their minds as cold as ice
And someone way down here
Loses someone dear
The winner takes it all
The loser has to fall
It’s simple and it’s plain
Why should I complain.
But tell me does she kiss
Like I used to kiss you?
Does it feel the same
When she calls your name?
Somewhere deep inside
You must know I miss you
But what can I say
Rules must be obeyed
The judges will decide
The likes of me abide
Spectators of the show
Always staying low
The game is on again
A lover or a friend
A big thing or a small
The winner takes it all
I don’t wanna talk
If it makes you feel sad
And I understand
You’ve come to shake my hand
I apologize
If it makes you feel bad
Seeing me so tense
No self confidence
But you see, The winner takes it all......
The winner takes it all......
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